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Feb 11

smitten kitten: Ways Gender-Privileged Men Can Challenge Sexism →

meeca:

(This list will be forever in-progress. Please add on as you see fit).

  • Challenge sexist jokes, such as dumb blonde jokes or jokes about rape.
  • Avoid using words such as “bitch”, “hoe”, “slut.”
  • Recognize when you “zone out” when women are speaking, when you value a man’s opinion…

Sorry, this is a little angering to me.  I agree with a lot of this, but much of this is “give me respect because I’m a woman”.  How bout I give you respect because I respect you, not just because of what gender you are?  Plus, lumping “all men” together is a dangerous game, especially when you take in factors of sexuality, like a gay male vs. a straight male.  From my opinion, this is a hetero-normative woman’s privileged list.

EDIT: Also, people need to separate “men” from “masculinity”.  Just saying, as not all “men” would call themselves -or even want to associate with -being “masculine”.  And also, privilege needs to be recognized as a relative thing and not true in all situations, countries, or societies nor is it absolute.  While it’s def’ true most all of the world’s cultures and societies have been male-dominated, certain “privileges” listed aren’t all true everywhere.

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    i agree with a lot of this, but some of them are just pedantic nonsence
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    There is actually nothing better than having an intimate partner ask if things are okay and actually mean it.
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    Yes. Please. Just read this and print it out and tape it to your refrigerator or somewhere you can read it every day.
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